Love marriages

There has been a trend now a days in India for  love marriages. The gal meets the guy in colleges for higher studies.They get closer to each other then as qualified professionals they take over their jobs in different states/countries.Even if they love love is not enough to get married in India they have to convince each other's parents.Especially girl's father is the most difficult person to convince, there are instances where the father hits the boy right away even if they are educated and civilized.It comes down to riot between two families.It is up to the children to convince them under any circumstances if they want to get married if they wish to get married eloping civilised and educated girls resist doing that because if there is any problems in the marriage tomorrow she wants to be safe enough to have both. SO girls play smarter and boys are hard enough as well o convince the parents and in laws.